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Silverfiddle Rant! |
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I?" -- Rabbi Hillel
"Man was not intended to live alone but as a member of society. He is a unit in the body of humanity, and that fact creates many duties for him with respect to his relationship with his fellow-men. His life is not his own to do with as he pleases. His conduct affects his neighbours as their conduct affects him."
Communism, socialism and all forms of coerced collectivism are a grotesque extremist mockery of this timeless wisdom.
"Rugged Individualism" stands at the other extreme, routinely espoused by bloviators living in a house serviced by public utilities, who enjoy the freedom to relieve themselves in sanitary conditions that whisk away their excreta, who drive down public roads and who can get their packaged foods offered by grocery stores thanks to all the others around them who form a collective market for the safe delivery and economic purveyance of such goods.
Cult of Me
A non-ideological variant of Rugged Individualism is the virulent Cult of Self propagated through social media and stoked by popular culture. We're all stars now, living the lifestyles of the rich and beautiful. This is a façade that hides insecurity, existential despair and a sense of disconnected emptiness.
We live in a cartoon world, so I will avoid cartoon solutions. Ancient wisdom says cohesive families and communities, bound by shared tradition and mores is the healthiest model, and I agree with that. But I also left home at seventeen and have returned only to visit.
Ours is a mobile society that moves and adjusts based on the economy, jobs, boom and bust... We move away from our communities and families, so old people are left to die in isolation, no opportunity to convey their wisdom to their children and grandchildren, who are instead condemned to get their "wisdom" from society's disordered artists, minstrels, and twisted storytellers.
What's wrong with kids today? Answer: Parents. Parenting is the most important job on the planet, but we get no training, and by the time we are experts, our children are grown. But it has always been so. What's different for us now, is that dislocated parents have lost their coaches. The grandparents live in another state. Strength and energy belong to youth; the old are the keepers of wisdom an knowledge. A healthy family and society benefits from cross-generational cooperation to advance themselves and teach the children while they're at it.
It really does take a village to raise a child, but the disintegration of our communities is well-documented, and again, I blame our mobile society. It's hard to form a community of diverse people who are all from somewhere else. Human beings just aren't wired that way.
Pharma may ease the pain temporarily, but we are social creatures not meant to suffer in isolation. Having a robust family and community around you centers you in something larger than yourself that yet does not overwhelm you, and a good support structure buffers you against the inevitable vagaries of life and also enhances celebration of the good things.
Maybe it is as simple as this: The further we get from the soil, the further away we are from God and one another.
What say you?
Links:
Yuval Levin - The American Context of Civil Society
Can We Rebuild Community in an Age of Individualism
The Fallacy in the Culture Wars
Have We Reached the Limit of Individualism?